Thanks so much for all your warm thoughts and words of sympathy … it means a lot.
So I’ve sat here for half an hour now … not knowing what to say next. I want to say that I saw Grandma lying peacefully in her bed, the rest home staff had put her teeth in and made her look nice and put her Bible on her chest. The funeral director came and spent ages filling in paperwork, he was very sensitive about transferring her body to his stretcher and covering her with a velvet cover, which we watched and even helped with. Then he pushed her out to his car making sure she left the building feet first … very important apparently. We had to go through her things to find a suitable outfit for her to be dressed in and then all her belongings had to be packed up and taken from the room. She is now in Wanganui awaiting Monday’s funeral.
The kids have all reacted differently. They have spent the last 4 years going regularly to the rest home to visit Grandma … that’s most of Jessi’s life … they saw her in bed last Wednesday when she clearly looked unwell, mumbling random thoughts without her teeth in … Rebekah was actually quite a good interpreter! Jessi saw her Friday when she was talking about the baby next to her (a cushion) hoping that he would hurry up and go to sleep so she could get some rest.
So Jessi was full of questions, she saw I had some of Grandma’s belongings in the car yesterday when I picked her up from kindy. We discussed why she didn’t need them any more and that Grandma was no longer there to visit. Alexander asked to just drive past the rest-home one more time. Rebekah was a little more emotional but hasn’t really talked much about it yet … I know she’s taking in all the details … like when we are traveling to Wanganui, who is coming when, what the funeral plans are etc.
So that’s what I want to say … is it wrong to talk so openly about that stuff?
And I also want to write a woo hoot Wednesday post
because there’s also been some pretty cool stuff happen this week.
Friday’s spontaneous trip to a shop in Brooklyn called Swonderful with Janine. I also took her to Inky Pinky in Karori and found some very cool cupcake paper thingys to cook my next batch of cupcakes in.
Saturday’s crop with the girls. Lots of fun … so relaxed … except for the 15mins I spent creating a layout for Lusi’s Friday night challenge at The Sketchbook with Mandy. And Mandy was tough, I wasn’t allowed a second longer that 15mins and she even hid my layout so I didn’t go on doodling and fluffing and stuff. I had such a nice day though, scrapping with good friends who shared stuff and ideas and made cups of coffee and all that …
Coke Zero … but I’ve really got to stop drinking it late at night. I was still bouncing off the walls at 1.30am the morning after the crop.
And I see my layout was voted by the design team at Aussie Scrap Source. Even with the really bad photo of it. Unfortunately I just couldn’t manage a layout or two for them this week … but Lara is still going strong if you want to vote.
The weather today.
Just had to take my camera on my walk today … Wellington on a good day … simply stunning.
Not sure if you can see it but there’s a snow capped mountain right behind those hills and that would be the South Island. I so love my new walking route!
Caring friends also make my woo hoot list too. Cards, flowers, blog and e-mail messages – thank you.
Getting Alexander’s birthday invitations made and out to his friends.
It’s a space party … baking soda rockets in the back yard … alien creations with my craft supplies maybe … any other ideas?
And now I’ve really gotta go do something … I haven’t scrapped since Sunday I think, unless you count the invitations.
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